Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love: for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
~ Desiderata, 1692
It is only natural and human to believe that we are not lovable or deserving, since we are persons who are going through major loss or change. Remember the movie “An Affair to Remember”? The female in the movie did not want the male to know that she had had an accident and could no longer walk. She then dismissed his love before he had a chance to decide for himself. Once he learned of her limitations, he embraced her completely. Can you relate to her self sabotage and low self esteem?
Today’s Life Coach Action Plan: Identify 3 ways in which you can create opportunities to love or be loved in your life. Seek love.
Note: Please comment below and let me know how this works for you.